She’s currently out of your life, but you obviously want her back into it. Discover how to win her back with a few psychological tactics. A few people may frown on the use of tactics like these, but who cares what they think. The important thing is to win her back.
Most people are blind to it but we are manipulated almost every day by psychological tactics. Governments, employers, even our friends and partners. Employers use these tactics with employee of the month. Production is way up as everyone battles to win the shiny plaque.
She returns your call without you even asking
Most of us like to receive letters through the post, as long as they aren’t demands for payment that is! So you write her a nice handwritten note and tell her you want to thank her. And tell her that things are good for you right now.
By doing this you raise 2 things in her. Curiosity & pride. She gets curios about the “thank you” bit, but then the pride takes over when she thinks she must have done something good. Because of these two triggers she will be desperate to discover the reason why you thanked her, so she will call you. You explain the breakup has done you the power of good, so thanks for that.
The only reason for sending the letter is to make her call you back. You can play this so she actually thinks you got back together because she called you. See, you never once in the letter asked her to call you. But she did anyway and that was the whole point of the exercise.
Later I can show you how to get yourself the exact letter to send. There are some other neat little moves just like this one.
Memories are there to be used
By this I mean everyone has memories that are treasured, and these can be used for your advantage. Favourite songs, foods, smells. They all work as good as each other.
When she calls after you send the letter make sure she can just about hear her fav song in the background. In the back of her mind when she thinks of that song she thinks of the most recent time she heard it, that was on the phone to you. She loves the song. She heard it while on the phone to you. Her subconscious links the nice feelings together.
Make her a bit jealous & curious
This is where you start to go out with friends and you make sure you have a great time. But more importantly you engineer it so that she also knows you had a great time.
Don’t go out on a 1 to 1 date as this may well scare her off completely. But a friends night out will make her feel a bit jealous as she was left out. She definitely doesn’t expect you to be moving on so quick after the breakup. If it works right she starts to feel that it should be you & her out and not you & your friends.
These few tactics are just some of the many things you can use to win her back. Yes a few people will look down their nose at using them but they are harmless and no serious damage will be done. But using these tips on their own will likely lead nowhere.
What you really need is to use them as part of the total game plan to win her back. Without a decent system to follow chances are you will just screw the whole job up.
Have a look at what I think are the best couple systems to help you to win her back at my website…
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