If you are having a hard time getting over a recent breakup. Here are a few things you can’t do if you want to get your ex back. Most people will end up doing one or the other of these simply because they know no different.
1 – Spreading lies about your ex
This one will kill any chances of getting your ex back stone dead. Put the shoe on the other foot and think how you would cope with your ex telling everyone lies about you. I certainly wouldn’t like it. If my ex were telling lies about me then that would be the end of it, for good.
2 – Trying to make your ex feel jealous
Although this can work to a certain extent if used right. But jumping straight in after a breakup and trying to make them jealous will just make them feel all the more distant from you. This can backfire big time. The jealousy you are looking for may turn to revulsion and they then know it’s over for good.
3 – The stalker
We shouldn’t even have to say anything about stalking but just in case we do. The best you can hope for is to be seen as desperate and needy. That doesn’t help you at all. Worst case scenario you can get your self into trouble with the law, possibly even a jail sentence. Imagine what that’d do to your chances.
4 – Revenge is sweet
If you are harbouring thoughts of revenge then you must ask yourself how badly you want to get your ex back. You can’t love your ex as much as you think if you are planning some kind of revenge. If you love someone you won’t hurt them, period.
5 – Text pest
Being a text pest is nearly as bad as being a stalker. Calling and texting constantly can be seen as a form of mental torture. Trust me this is not how you wanna come across. What if they were to change their number instead of just ignoring you? If they do that there’s a good chance you lost them for good.
You now know a few things to avoid doing if you have desires to get your ex back. There are many things you can do to increase your chances but alas these aren’t them
If you want my advice, use the next few weeks to take some time out and get your emotions firmly in check With your emotions under control you give yourself every chance of steering your ex back to you.
I used a step by step system to get my wife back when I was going through a bad breakup.
Getting your ex back should be your choice, and not left to fate.
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