Get Your Ex Back – 5 Mistakes You Must Not Make
07 Sep 2009
If you can’t quite come to terms with your recent split and are suffering. You need to avoid any of these things if you desire to get your ex back. Most people fall into the trap of doing these no-no’s and ruin any chance they have.
1 – Do not lie about your ex
This little no-no will put an end to any possible chance you have of getting them back. If they were spreading lies about you, how would you feel about that? I know I would be gutted. And as far as I was concerned my recent ex is definitely going to stay that way…my ex!
2 – Getting your ex to be a bit jealous
This tactic can work if you know what you are doing and when to use it. But it won’t work when you’ve just broke up and you are clearly in bits and they know you will try anything to get your ex back. This can go wrong in a big way. You try for jealousy and you get disgust and them deciding that it was a good decision to split.
3 – Behaving like a stalker
We shouldn’t even have to say anything about stalking but just in case we do. At best you are going to come across as needy and clingy, which isn’t going to help. At worst you can come across as dangerous and frightening, which could lead to the law being involved which will most definitely kill any chance you have.
4 – Getting revenge on your ex
Revenge may be sweet but if revenge is on your mind do you really want to get them back? If you are prepared to do the dirty on them in any way at all you can’t really love them as much as you think. If you love someone you won’t hurt them, period.
5 – Text pest
Being a text pest is nearly as bad as being a stalker. Calling and texting constantly can be seen as a form of mental torture. Trust me this is not how you wanna come across. What if they were to change their number instead of just ignoring you? If they do that there’s a good chance you lost them for good.
You now know a few things to avoid doing if you have desires to get your ex back. Some things will increase the odds in your favour but they aren’t them, so avoid them.
A good bit of advice is to take a bit of time to get your head together and formulate a proper plan. If you are in control of your emotions you give yourself a greater chance to get your ex back.
When I split & wanted to get my wife back I turned to a step by step system that was so easy to follow a child could have done it.
Getting your ex back is a choice, not a chance.
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